I'm so glad we are talking about pregnancy loss here. I have had two of them after my son was born, in my second one I was expecting triplets. It has taken me about six years to "get over" it, meaning that now I can talk about my losses without bursting into tears. Yet the pain is still there. Yes, all losses are tragic and sad and they have to be validated.
I am so sorry for your losses! Yes, it takes so much time to move through our pain, and it doesn't go away. We spend our lives integrating our grief. I hope we can continue to create spaces where we can talk about our losses.
I'm so glad we are talking about pregnancy loss here. I have had two of them after my son was born, in my second one I was expecting triplets. It has taken me about six years to "get over" it, meaning that now I can talk about my losses without bursting into tears. Yet the pain is still there. Yes, all losses are tragic and sad and they have to be validated.
I am so sorry for your losses! Yes, it takes so much time to move through our pain, and it doesn't go away. We spend our lives integrating our grief. I hope we can continue to create spaces where we can talk about our losses.